Writing Archive
Explore a curated collection of my writing, including psychotherapy insights, short stories, letters, and poetry, all compiled for easy access and reflection.
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Joyce
Dear Joyce, I’ve tried talking with you but have never yet got past the ‘me’ that you’ve heard from other people & so I feel you still think of me as that small child.…
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John
Dear John, You’ve been gone a long time now & while I tried to talk to you when you were here, I felt you closed that down at every opportunity. so this is one…
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letters never meaning to send
Simon, you said to me I wanted to have a relationship with you, you do have one, it may be a strained one but there it is. I remember you being born, your mum…
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Karpman triangle
The Persecutor, Rescuer and Victim Triangle. Stephen Karpman first wrote about the Drama Triangle in 1968; his Drama Triangle is based on blame and guilt and operates whenever games, lies or denial occurs. The…
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Case study: Gilly
Controlling women I first wrote on Controlling men a couple of decades ago, since then the idea of controlling people: meaning people who control their relationships and environments by force, violence and abuse has…
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Book 1
There is a wonderful, mystical law of nature that the three things we crave most in life; happiness, freedom and peace of mind, are only gained by giving them to someone else. Unknown …
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Opening
There is a wonderful, mystical law of nature that the three things we crave most in life; happiness, freedom and peace of mind, are only gained by giving them to someone else. Unknown …