Writing Archive
Explore a curated collection of my writing, including psychotherapy insights, short stories, letters, and poetry, all compiled for easy access and reflection.
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How To Avoid Relationships
Play hide and seek with your feelings To create a conscious, spiritual relationship it is vitally important to communicate feelings with honesty and openness as they occur or as soon as possible. When we…
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Setting Priorities in your Life
Setting Priorities in your Life. We can stretch time in our lives by prioritising the order in which we accomplish things. If you routinely set priorities at work, learn to do this in your…
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Concepts of ‘Change’
James Prochaska and Carlo Diclemente (1982) developed a model of change which is unique in many ways. First, it is empirically driven. In other words it is based on the researchers’ scientific investigation of…
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Chapter 5 Self Esteem
EVENTS lead to INTERPRETATION leading to EMOTION leading to ACTION Making your Happiness Changes Conscious Becoming conscious means not operating automatically, its about really seeing what is happening and choosing your best possible emotional,…
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Boundaries
To recognise your ideal partner you must know yourself first. A union between people who have resolved themselves and most of their issues creates balanced, strong and positive partnerships, where partners feel safe due…