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  • Behaving Assertively

    Basic Strategies for Behaving More Assertively Relationships are the essentials of life and society. Our relationships,…

  • Transactional Analysis

    Transactional Analysis (or TA as it is often called) is a model of people and relationships…

  • Mentoring guidelines

    These serve to provide only as much structure to give mentors and Mentees a common set…

  • Mentoring

    i intend to later follow this up with a mentorship course, if interested in that do…

  • Rhourigh and the Jameson

    Rhourigh settles beside the fire, the wind sloughing off the marshes eases damp into his young…

  • An Intuitive Exploration

    Successful people are often described as having an ability to constantly humble themselves so as to…

  • Chapter 4

    De-Stressing:     Sometimes we bottle things up or hide things from people. Sometimes we think that…

  • Two Deaths

    Two Philosophies: The Witness as Experiencer.  neil benbow:             “The Death of Fear is Doing what…

  • MEN WHO CONTROL

    (this essay was published in counselling magazine) This essay is written for trainee Counsellors, Counsellors, those…

  • Controlling Women

    (this the one the counselling magazine wouldn’t publish) I’ve written earlier of controlling men and the…