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  • Tio Noel

    the uncle who co-opted me, used me as a sacrificial pawn in his rotten games. the…

  • to the forgotten social worker

    some things you have feelings for if you even if don’t know why: I hate blue…

  • book 1 chapter 3: assertiveness

    Strategies for Behaving More Assertivel Relationships are the essentials of life and society. Our relationships, loves,…

  • A lack of summer

    That year and the one before but we just carried on digging daddy and me. We…

  • letters never meaning to send

    writing these has not been easy writing letters never meaning to send has long been a…

  • the occasional mother

    Dear joyce my runaway occasional mother, which in itself is a too polite way of saying:…

  • my sister from another mister

    mandy my sister from another mister I met you so few times in my life, the…

  • Harold

    Ah Harold, the last time I saw you was a summers day, I’d gone to my…

  • A fine pair

    I’d been living with a hider and slider. She cheated, and believed that was ok as…

  • Book 1 chapter 2

    Making Happiness your Intention Whatever we choose to focus on, becomes our lives; if you focus…