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  •  Static:

    Static, soft as rain thru’ canvas pours from conversations. “We don’t conversate no mo’!”  She yells…

  • Harassment and Bullying

    I’m including Harassment and Bullying as I think that all of us have at some time…

  • Fever

    Sunny afternoons and childhood games, Robert and I swimming in the pool over the next hill.…

  • Chapter 5 Self Esteem

    EVENTS lead to INTERPRETATION leading to EMOTION leading to ACTION Making your Happiness Changes Conscious Becoming…

  • Boundaries

    To recognise your ideal partner you must know yourself first. A union between people who have…

  • The Daily Temperature Reading

    (originally by Virginia Satir) As you become used to the temperature reading, you’ll evolve your own…

  • Fishponds

    I’ve yet to discover a medical term for this compulsion but compulsion I believe it is:…

  • Behaving Assertively

    Basic Strategies for Behaving More Assertively Relationships are the essentials of life and society. Our relationships,…

  • Transactional Analysis

    Transactional Analysis (or TA as it is often called) is a model of people and relationships…

  • Mentoring guidelines

    These serve to provide only as much structure to give mentors and Mentees a common set…