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  • my sister from another mister

    mandy my sister from another mister I met you so few times in my life, the…

  • Harold

    Ah Harold, the last time I saw you was a summers day, I’d gone to my…

  • A fine pair

    I’d been living with a hider and slider. She cheated, and believed that was ok as…

  • Book 1 chapter 2

    Making Happiness your Intention Whatever we choose to focus on, becomes our lives; if you focus…

  • Joyce

    Dear Joyce, I’ve tried talking with you but have never yet got past the ‘me’ that…

  • John

    Dear John, You’ve been gone a long time now & while I tried to talk to…

  • letters never meaning to send

    Simon, you said to me I wanted to have a relationship with you, you do have…

  • A MAP OF AFRICA

    Again asleep, adrift on an ocean of mud, sliding deeper into the maw of death. When,…

  • Karpman triangle

    The Persecutor, Rescuer and Victim Triangle. Stephen Karpman first wrote about the Drama Triangle in 1968;…

  • Case study: Gilly

    Controlling women I first wrote on Controlling men a couple of decades ago, since then the…