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  • Rhourigh and the Jameson

    Rhourigh settles beside the fire, the wind sloughing off the marshes eases damp into his young…

  • An Intuitive Exploration

    Successful people are often described as having an ability to constantly humble themselves so as to…

  • Chapter 4

    De-Stressing: Get informedBe informed-finding out information can really reduce your stress. If you’re well informed then…

  • Two Deaths

    Two Philosophies: The Witness as Experiencer.  neil benbow:             “The Death of Fear is Doing what…

  • MEN WHO CONTROL

    (this essay was published in counselling magazine) This essay is written for trainee Counsellors, Counsellors, those…

  • Controlling Women

    (this the one the counselling magazine wouldn’t publish) I’ve written earlier of controlling men and the…

  • BUCKLOW: A town like many others.

    This is not a good place, like those towns that promise you smiles, or enjoyment, Bucklow…

  • beatties

    by name & nature. I came back to the family home after a year in care…

  • Tio Noel

    the uncle who co-opted me, used me as a sacrificial pawn in his rotten games. the…

  • to the forgotten social worker

    some things you have feelings for if you even if don’t know why: I hate blue…