neilbenbow@consultant.com

  • Do Not Fear Being Alone

    One reason why we continue to stay in unhealthy relationships is because we are afraid of…

  • One Holds the Love…

    She’s sitting now; magazine on lilac knee length skirted lap, coffee by her side. Resting for…

  • How To Avoid Relationships

    Play hide and seek with your feelings To create a conscious, spiritual relationship it is vitally…

  • Setting Priorities in your Life

    Setting Priorities in your Life. We can stretch time in our lives by prioritising the order…

  • Concepts of ‘Change’

    James Prochaska and Carlo Diclemente (1982) developed a model of change which is unique in many…

  •  Static:

    Static, soft as rain thru’ canvas pours from conversations. “We don’t conversate no mo’!”  She yells…

  • Harassment and Bullying

    I’m including Harassment and Bullying as I think that all of us have at some time…

  • Fever

    Sunny afternoons and childhood games, Robert and I swimming in the pool over the next hill.…

  • Chapter 5 Self Esteem

    EVENTS lead to INTERPRETATION leading to EMOTION leading to ACTION Making your Happiness Changes Conscious Becoming…

  • Boundaries

    To recognise your ideal partner you must know yourself first. A union between people who have…